| Location | Torquay |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 20/10/2008 |
| Date of Death | 20/10/2008 |
| Visitors | 2,471 since 27/10/2008 |
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Perfect beautiful tiny George, born too soon. So very much wanted and so missed.
Our son George died and was born on October 20th 2008 after 21 weeks of pregnancy.
One year without George:
http://barbaraboucher.blogspot.com/2009/10/george.html
5th March.
George should have been born sometime this week pink and screaming and taken home alive.
I'll never get to know the scent of his warm head.
My sweet spring baby.
I write a blog about my life without George at www.barbaraboucher.blogspot.com please come and say
hello.
My friend Carly has a wonderful support site at
http://whisperedsupport.blogspot.com/ for us babylost parents.
I wrote a letter to my lost son:
My darling George,
My son, my baby, my poppet, my lost child...
It's been almost a month now and I miss you.
I wanted to feel you move more than I did. I wanted to see you move my belly. I wanted to talk to
you knowing you could hear me from inside. I wanted to feel your reactions to your daddy's hand and
voice more than that one time when he put his hand on my belly and you wriggled, it was wonderful. I
wanted to get fatter and complain about my back. I wanted to feel impatient to meet you.
I wanted your birth to be happy and healthy not filled with pain and sadness. I wanted to feel the
pain of real, happy labour and give birth to you not too soon but at just the right time. I wanted
to see your eyes open and hear your cry. I wanted the time to find out which bits you got from me
and which from your daddy. I wanted to breastfeed you and feel that bond. I wanted to take you home.
I wanted the sleepless nights. I wanted to stare at the miracle of you made with love.
I wanted to see you discover the world and smile when it made sense. I wanted to show you so many
things. I wanted us to discover the leaves on the trees and the boats on the sea as a family. I
wanted to play with you for hours and forget the housework. I wanted to giggle and be silly with
you. I wanted to proudly push you in your buggy. "This is my son George, isn't he the most
handsome?" I wanted to hear you say "daddy" and "mummy" for the first time. I wanted to give you so
many cuddles and hugs and kisses. I wanted to get to know you, to see your personality develop and
assert itself. I wanted to help you be as you as you could be.
I wanted to let you run wild because sometimes it's good to feel wild and free. I wanted to
encourage your mischievous nature. You would have had one: mummy and daddy do. I wanted to try to
answer your endless questions. I wanted to protect you from the horrors of this world. I wanted you
to feel safe.
I wanted to worry about you as you started school. I wanted you to enjoy learning. I wanted you to
feel you could do anything. I wanted you to be able to find your way in life. I wanted you to have
adventures.
I wanted to teach you about love and respect and kindness so that when you bought your first
girlfriend home we would know you were behaving like a gentleman, just like your father. I wanted to
meet your first girlfriend... and your second... I wanted to cry when you got married and cry when I
saw my first grandchild for the first time.
But whatever path you decided on in your life I wanted to support you.
I wanted to grow old knowing I had done the best I could for you.
I will always love you.
I will always miss you.
I will never forget you.
Your Mummy.
We two, how long we were fool'd,
Now transmuted, we swiftly escape as Nature escapes,
We are Nature, long have we been absent, but now we return,
We become plants, trunks, foliage, roots, bark,
We are bedded in the ground, we are rocks,
We are oaks, we grow in the openings side by side,
We browse, we are two among the wild herds spontaneous as any,
We are two fishes swimming in the sea together,
We are what locust blossoms are, we drop scent around lanes mornings
and evenings,
We are also the coarse smut of beasts, vegetables, minerals,
We are two predatory hawks, we soar above and look down,
We are two resplendent suns, we it is who balance ourselves orbic
and stellar, we are as two comets,
We prowl fang'd and four-footed in the woods, we spring on prey,
We are two clouds forenoons and afternoons driving overhead,
We are seas mingling, we are two of those cheerful waves rolling
over each other and interwetting each other,
We are what the atmosphere is, transparent, receptive, pervious, impervious,
We are snow, rain, cold, darkness, we are each product and influence
of the globe,
We have circled and circled till we have arrived home again, we two,
We have voided all but freedom and all but our own joy.
W. H. Auden
Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He Is Dead,
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last for ever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now: put out every one;
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun;
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood.
For nothing now can ever come to any good.
A Birthday In Heaven - by Kris Smith
I heard you crying yesterday,
And felt your heart-sent love.
So I’m sending you this message
Now, from Heaven up above.
You’re wondering if I’ll celebrate
My Birthday (way up here).
I know you’re missing me today
I feel your essence near.
God planned a special day for me,
He told me with a wink.
He’d ordered me a special cake
(It’s Angel food, I think).
Balloons will fill the streets for me,
They float up through the clouds.
And we have lots of friends up here
That make us laugh out loud.
There is a Birthday carousel,
Jewelled horses ride the wind,
With music playing, oh so sweet…
The magic never ends.
I’ve made so many friends, you see
We laugh and play and sing.
We ride our bikes and play the fool
And sleep in Angel’s wings.
But we don’t blow out our candles here
Instead, they light the skies.
With love from your little Angel xxx
To The Child I'll Never Know - by Gloria Dianne
How can I say Good Bye
When I never said Hello,
Why does my heart grieve
For the child I'll never know?
You were a part of me
For just a little while.
I grieve because I'll never see
The magic in your smile.
I grieve for all the unsaid words
That you will never say.
I grieve that I will never see
You happily at play.
I grieve for all the lullabies
That will remain unsung.
I grieve because I'll never see
Your face gleaming like the sun.
I grieve because you will never know
The comfort of my touch.
I grieve because you will never know
That you were loved so much.
I grieve for all the tomorrows
That will never be.
I grieve because God chose
To take you back from me.
You live among the Angels now
Your earthly mission done,
You will be so dearly missed
Good-Bye my little one.
X X
Dear George, dear son,
I wish I could tell you so many things but most of all, I wish I could tell you I love you.
Your Mummy
xxx
⊱♥⊰ ANGEL WINGS YOU WEAR... ⊱♥⊰~
The day you left broke our hearts
and the tears fell like rain,
but knowing that you now have wings
helps to ease the pain.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
We know now when the snow falls
it is Angel dust from you
and when we see a shooting star
our Angel just passed through.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
The rain drops do not make us sad
for they are not tears,
but sprinkles of love falling down,
our Angel again is near.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
The winter cold has even changed,
Jack Frost no longer exists,
it's now a visit from our Angel
and he's left a special gift.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
You also visit in the night,
your wings flutter with grace,
we know now when we awaken
that an Angel has kissed our face.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
When the days are warm and bright
and the sun shines from above,
we feel the warmth wrap around us,
you've given an Angel hug.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
You are with us at all times,
every day and night,
you try to end the pain we have
and the tears that we still cry.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Though Heaven is your home now
and Angel wings you wear,
you stay close to those you love,
until they join you there.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
WITH LOVE
♥The little stars♥
♥That shine so bright♥
♥Are Angels come♥
♥To say Goodnight:♥
♥"Goodnight,♥
♥Sleep Tight,♥
♥Sweetest Dreams we'll send♥
♥To you To-night."♥
♥So,if you peek♥
♥Outside and spy♥
♥A wee star twinkling♥
♥In the sky;♥
♥It may,♥
♥It might,♥
♥Be an Angel♥
♥Come to say Goodnight.♥
♥Written By:♥
♥Harriet Blanche Jones.♥
WITH LOVE
~~~For All Our Little Angels~~~
For all our little angels
Gone before they've grown
No one knows the reason why
The angels called you home
I've asked the Lord a million times
Why this should have to be
The angels whispered softly
One day you will see
That doesn't help us now
We're feeling sad and low
We need to understand
Why it is you had to go
But I know we will never get
An answer to this plea
Until we are together
In heaven for eternity
So many of us miss you
So many of us grieve
So many hearts are broken
Because you had to leave
Be happy our little angels
Remember each of us with love
Until one by one we meet again
With you in heaven above.
Copyright© Ingrid Aspey 24/6/09
♥ 16TH MAY 2009 ♥
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♥
with love
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WITH LOVE
Precious Babies - Author Unknown
Take a moment of your day
To maybe sit and in your mind
Think of all the precious babies
Yours, theirs and mine
Those whose short lives were over
Before they had really ever begun
Those precious little bundles
Who have made us all a Mum
Their tiny lives have touched us all
And what I want to say
They have brought us all together
Each and every day
The babies whose beautiful faces
In our minds forever will be
Whose names are etched within our hearts
For anyone, the whole world to see
The babies who touched our lives
Who we think of through our tears
I hope in time we will be able to smile
When we remember them through the years
So this week while we remember
All our babies who had to go
We shall show the world we are united
And how we love and miss them so
WITH LOVE
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆ HEAVEN ♥ ☆ ♥ ☆
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without the children there,
Playing hide and seek in pearly mists
Free from every pain and care.
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their carefree rapture,
Scrambling through the fluffy clouds
Each happy moment to capture
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their shouts and laughter
Echoing across Elysian fields
As starbursts they chase after
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their joyful choir
Ringing through celestial realms
Sweet voices rising ever higher
♥ ☆ ♥ ☆
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their radiant light,
Undimmed by earths murky shades
Their robes shining bright.
Heaven would not be Heaven
Without their smiles of pleasure,
Bearing sheaves of rainbow flowers
The children are Heaven's treasure.
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